Hey there, fellow curl enthusiasts! Embarking on a curly hair journey can be as confusing as it is exciting. It’s a path filled with twists, turns, and a whole lot of bounce.
Many of us spent years fighting our natural curls, waves and coils unaware of their unique beauty or how to care for them. If you’re just starting your curly journey, know you’re not alone—and there’s a lot of wisdom from those who’ve been there, done that.
We asked our TrèLuxe Curl Care Community Facebook Group to reflect on their own curl journey and share their wisdom. Here are some game-changing insights they wished they knew earlier.
“That I even had curls to take care of.”
Isn’t it wild that so many of us didn’t even realize we had curls to begin with? 🙈 For years, we brushed, straightened, and fought against our natural texture, thinking our hair was just “poofy” or “unmanageable.” Spoiler alert: that hidden wave or frizz you’ve been battling? It’s actually a curl waiting to shine! Learning that you’re part of the curly crew is like discovering a superpower you never knew you had — and it’s the first step to unlocking your hair’s true potential.
“You need more water.”
Water is the ultimate wingman for your curls — it’s the secret sauce that makes all the magic happen! 💦 Styling wavy, curly or coily hair on wet strands is like working with a clean slate; your curls are at their juiciest, most cooperative selves. When your hair is soaking wet, products can glide on smoothly, locking in all that hydration and helping your curls clump and define like pros. Think of it as turning up the volume on your natural curl pattern! Does your hair dry too fast? Use the Continuous Mist Spray Bottle to keep those tresses quenched! So, next time you style, don’t be shy — soak it up, scrunch it out, and let the water do the heavy lifting.💧
“Humidity makes a huge difference on which products to use.”
Humidity: the ultimate plot twist in every curly-haired person’s story. 🌦 One day it’s your best friend, giving you big, bouncy volume, and the next, it’s a frizz-fest you didn’t RSVP for. The secret? Choosing the right products to help your curls vibe with the weather. High humidity? Reach for lightweight gels like our Hi! Definition Curl Enhancer Styling Curl Gel or anti-humectants like our ReFlex Curl Styling Serum to keep things smooth and defined. Dry air? It’s time to pull out those rich creams like the Curl Supreme 4-in-1 Hydrating Créme and humectants like the Ultra Moisturizing Deep Conditioner to keep your curls hydrated and happy. Mastering the art of humidity-proofing your curls is like learning a dance — you’ve just got to go with the flow and let your products do the talking! ✨
“Not to touch your curls because it will add frizz.”
Put those hands down! 🙌 At least while your curls are drying, touching them is like poking a soufflé in the oven—it’s only going to mess things up. Your hair is still in its delicate, “setting” phase, and every touch is an open invitation for frizz to crash the party. 🌀Resist the urge to scrunch, fluff or check on your curls as they dry. Trust the process and let your products work their magic. Once your hair is fully dry, then you can scrunch out the crunch and fluff it up like the fabulous curly royalty you are. Until then, hands off — it’s curly law! 🚫✋
“Use a diffuser.”
If your curls had a hype squad, the diffuser would be the captain! 🎉 This magical tool isn’t just a hairdryer attachment; it’s your curly hair’s best friend. Diffusing helps define your curls, amp up the volume, and cut down drying time — basically, it’s the glow-up your curls have been waiting for. ✨ Plus, it minimizes frizz by gently drying your hair instead of blasting it into a fluffy mess. The trick? Use low heat and low speed, and let the diffuser cup your curls like the precious treasures they are. With a diffuser in your routine, your curls are bound to go from “meh” to “WOW!” We even have a Collapsible Hair Diffuser that is perfect for traveling, so you can diffuse your curls and look fabulous when you are away from home.
“For me, less is more.”
When it comes to curly hair, sometimes less really is more — especially with TréLuxe! Curly hair thrives on the right balance of moisture, definition, care and using too many products can weigh it down. That’s where TréLuxe comes in: our simple yet effective formulas are packed with nourishing ingredients that give your curls everything they need without the overload. PLUS the products are more concentrated, so less is the best. A little goes a long way to enhance your natural texture, leaving you with soft, bouncy and beautifully defined curls. So, embrace the "less is more" approach and let your curls shine with just the essentials!
“Stop stressing and wishing for magic. Embrace what you have been given and don’t compare.”
This. Avoiding the comparison trap might be might be the most important piece of advice a curly can hear when they are embarking on their own curl journey. Curls are beautifully unpredictable, and no two curl days are alike. Many wish they’d learned to love the imperfections and quirks of their curls sooner. It is so easy to look on social media and compare your hair to all the wonderful influencers who have what looks like perfect curls, the waviest waves or the prettiest coils. But no one else in the world has YOUR curls, because they are on YOUR head! Every twist and bend is unique to you. You can’t change your hair pattern, but you can embrace what you have and make the most of it by using the right products, following some tips, and jumping feet first (or curls first).
The great part is that TréLuxe is here for you every step of the way on your curl journey! Our main mission is to educate curlies, wavies and coilies to embrace their natural hair and love everything about it (even the “bad” hair days). We have so many blogs, videos and information on our website to help in any way we can. We even have ReelCurls University to help you find a tutorial on any road block or hair knot that you might run into!
If you’re just starting out — or even if you’re years into your journey — know that every step forward is worth celebrating. Here’s to loving your curls!