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The three P’s of wavy, curly and coily hair

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You’ve got a frizzy mop of curls, coils or waves and just don’t know what to do with it. You might even have an embarrassing monster knot in your hair that keeps growing because you are not equipped to deal with it. You’ve searched online, you’ve grabbed curly hair products and didn’t really know what to do with them. Not knowing the basics of curl care is making you feel lost, overwhelmed, and maybe even ashamed? And who wants to feel like that? Nobody. Instead of giving up and reaching for the straightening iron or gasp! even the scissors for that knot, start taking in the solid wisdom from Cortney Sigilai, a confident coily who co-founded TréLuxe!

There are so many different ideas out there about how to keep curls defined, moisturized and free of breakage, that it’s downright difficult to tell what to believe. But, thankfully, Cortney will break it down for you. Let’s dive into the 3 P’s of curl care!

  1. Preservation
  2. Process
  3. Products

With Cortney’s expert advice, you’ll be moving forward on your curly hair journey with renewed confidence!


Preservation

The main goal of your curly hair routine should be to preserve the natural state of your curls. What is the natural state, you ask? Take a look at the roots of your hair, then look at your ends? What key differences do you notice? What you might find is that your roots have a bit more luster, springiness or agility, and strength. The key to maintaining these qualities throughout your head of curls is preservation. How you protect your curls from external stresses (mother nature and yourself) will dictate how long the luster, strength, and agility you see near the roots, lasts through the rest of your hair too. Here are four not-so-obvious things you can do to preserve your curls:

  1. Trim your nails and be mindful of your rings.
  2. Moisten your hands before touching your hair.
  3. Detangle with a seamless pick or comb.
  4. Use a satin pillowcase.

Trim your nails and be mindful of your rings

Think of your hair as a fiber — because it is. More specifically, think of your hair as a fine fiber like silk, which is a compound of fibers. You wouldn't handle a new silk blouse any ‘ole type of way, because it's delicate. Well guess what … so is your hair (the curlier and finer the strand, the more delicate it is)! Jagged nails and sharp rings can easily pull and snarl your curls. Treat your curls like your best silk blouse.

Moisten your hands before touching your hair

Friction is like kryptonite to curly hair! While our products have been known to instill Superwoman-like confidence, care must still be given to keep friction under control. While some friction is bound to happen, there are ways to minimize it. Listen up, curlfriend, dry hands should not touch your curls! When detangling your hair, first wet your hands and then coat your fingertips with the Untie the Knot Nourishing Leave-In Conditioner or the Aloe Vera Curl Primer to:

  • Minimize friction.
  • Moisturize curls.
  • Protect strands.

And btw, as the name suggests, the leave-in conditioner will make monster knots a distant memory! It comes with a scent of cinnamon and spice or the fragrance-free version is perfect for some curlies.

The primer is very lightweight. Those with fine hair, or loose curls and waves, reach for the primer again and again. Why? It detangles hair without weighing it down. Interested in more key info on how to detangle? Hit play for insights from Cortney!

Detangle with a seamless pick or comb
Your common comb is made of plastic, mass manufactured, and created by a mold. While this helps ensure each comb is consistently produced in the same shape and style, it also ensures a lot of split ends! Molded combs have “seams” between the teeth. These seams can snag and strip your hair. It's important to find a comb or hair pick that is seamless, and also retains some flexibility when it bends. A “bone comb” which is really a comb hand-made of finely sanded wood or organic resins, is much more suitable for curly hair than a traditional plastic comb. Once you find the right comb, don’t forget to keep it clean! We’ve got plenty of tidy tips for your whole crew in this post: Clean Up Your Curl Routine! Family Edition!


Use a satin pillowcase
Now that you’ve got your daytime habits down, don’t forget to protect your hair overnight! Watch as Cortney shares valuable info on how to protect your textured tresses while you sleep!


Process

Process is key to bringing out your curly hair pattern and keeping your curls healthy. One of the things you’ve probably learned already is that not all curls are made alike; and so, they require different handling based on curl density, porosity and thickness. Consider these things when deciding what process to use to reduce frizz and better define your curls:


Clumping your Curls

Curls like to cling to each other, and when done right, the results can be fantastic! To turn frizzy hair into bigger more defined curls, water is your friend; but in addition to water, you need a heavyweight product that also provides tons of slip. Try this: thoroughly saturate your hair with water, and while your hair is dripping wet, use the Untie the Knot Nourishing Leave-in Conditioner and then the Curl Supreme 4-in-1 Hydrating Crème. This combo provides the perfect blend of slip and weight to start the process of achieving more defined and clumped curls! 


Minimizing frizz

Frizz is a common challenge for those who are starting to embrace textured tresses! While frizz can be super frustrating, if properly addressed, it can be minimized. Frizz is usually a result of either a lack of moisture, damaged hair, or friction caused by external elements. To get a handle on frizz, consider using products that deliver moisture past application and through the cuticle layer to the cortex of your hair. Any one of our conditioning, moisturizing or styling products can achieve this goal! 



Products

Curls respond the best to low manipulation styling, and low manipulation products. Seek out water-based products that can distribute moisture through the cuticle layer of your curly hair, which keeps your hair agile and flexible. How do you know you've found the right products? Look at your curls’ characteristics: Is your hair springy? Your hair should have some resilience, in order to avoid breakage. Good curl care products allow your curls to rebound or spring back to protect the integrity of your hair.


Softness is a sign that you have found the right products! Any product that leaves your hair hard, leaves your hair vulnerable to brittleness and ultimately breakage. Seek out styling products that provide a flexible hold, and don't dry out your curls. The ReFlex Curl Styling Serum checks those boxes, and is ideal for fine strands, leaving curls defined but still hydrated and flexible using water, aloe, and grapeseed extract. If you need a stronger hold, try our Hi! Definition Curl Enhancer Styling Gel. It’s infused with aloe vera and honey extract to sculpt curls for long-lasting curl definition, without the dry, brittle feel.


Now that you’ve taken in the 3 P’s of curl care, we hope you’ve gained some insights on how to care for your curly, wavy or coily crown. Curl care education is at the core of TréLuxe! We want to empower you with all of the knowledge you need for lasting curl confidence. Be sure to listen to Cortney’s tried-and-true wisdom on getting into a good curl care groove!

Now is the time to let go of the confusion and other negative feelings and habits that are keeping you from getting into a solid curl care routine. Follow Cortney’s expert advice paired with high-quality products from TréLuxe and you’ll enjoy consistently beautiful curls for years to come!


Preservation

Process

Products

FAQs

Do TréLuxe products work on permed hair?

TréLuxe products are made from gentle, natural ingredients and are safe on chemically-treated strands. Originally formulated with natural curls in mind, our products can hydrate, define and enhance curls of any kind.

Do you offer fragrance-free products?

We do! Three of our most popular styling products: ReFlex Curl Styling Serum and Hi! Definition Curl Enhancer Styling Gel, and Untie the Knot Nourishing Leave-In Conditioner, come in fragrance-free options. We certainly understand that fragrances can be very subjective, and we’re working on developing more fragrance-free product offerings in the future.
Please do note that “fragrance-free” does not always equal “scent-free.” Fragrance-free means that there are no additive fragrances on top of the existing ingredients. However, there is still a scent as a result of the mixing together of all the ingredients.

Are there videos/tutorials of people using your products?

Yes, we’ve got a few different ways you can take in useful videos and tutorials that include the products in action.
We recently launched an incredible resource! It's called ReelCurls University and is full of helpful how-to videos to provide education and inspiration for curlies, coilies and wavies. We’d highly recommend checking it out!
TréLuxe social media pages share videos of people with all different types of textured hair. Check us out on Instagram (@discovertreluxe) or Facebook (discoverTreLuxe) for tons of helpful content.
The monthly newsletter and weekly Monday Motivation emails often contain videos and tutorials as well! We also have bi-monthly blogs that we post on our website, which take a deep dive into many different topics, including how to use the products!

Team TréLuxe

The TréLuxe Team

At Team TréLuxe, we’re more than just a brand—we’re a community of curl enthusiasts dedicated to helping you embrace your natural texture with confidence. As the authors of this blog, we bring you expert tips, product insights, and inspiring curl journeys to support you on your healthy hair journey. With a passion for education and a love for all things curls, we’re here to share knowledge, celebrate diversity, and empower you to achieve your best hair days yet!

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